First, it is important to note that in the first few seconds and our partner will head an idea about us. And that first impression is the one that will most strongly in his mind, so it will be very difficult to erase an initial bad impression
It is impossible to change a bad start, but there will certainly be much more likely to succeed if we please input. .
To make a good impression on the other person with whom we interact , it is necessary to take care of issues such as good posture, proximity, gestures and voice. Yes, a person who has poor posture cause a bad impression, so it is recommended to be firm with the spine erect, but relaxed at the same time show; erect posture may seem too fake and is usually associated with unfriendly and even arrogant.
In terms of proximity, look to be close to the other person, but without invading their space; this, of course, much depends on the place and even the country where we are. In Latin American countries, a greater closeness is recommended, in Anglo-Saxon not.
As for the gesture and voice, look talk to the body and hands. It is important to show the latter, that builds confidence in the party and shows how sincere and open people. But, of course, do not exaggerate either
The voice should not be impostada, but should be firm and audible. It is nice not hear well what you say, so it is advisable to talk to good tone, without actually how uncomfortable that would be talking too loud (this is usually ugly too).
The topics of conversation should also be well thought out. You must try to be yourself and talk about what you like, but that does not mean you'll be monothematic, for what you will achieve with that is to be considered boring. Nor does it mean that if you are a student of Quantum Physics, you'll stay talking about it, unless you're among connoisseurs of the subject. Ideally, find topics of common interests, so that you and your partner can enjoy the conversation and contribute equally ideas and content to it.
Moreover, it is interesting to have a conversation about a topic fluently. We all have more knowledge about certain areas of human activity, so it's interesting to hear interesting things (forgive the redundancy here) on a given topic.
But you should take care with two aspects: one must be sure that the item is really interesting to others; and the other is to be measured not want to pretend to know more than others (even if true) or you're too didactic or academic. Speak in a relaxed and friendly way about the chosen topic without seeming wiseacre or pedantic.
Another key point is to respect your partner . No matter if you have more knowledge, money, fame or status than he; treat him as an equal, no one likes to be left over or despise. If you are a person with lower intellectual level than yours, do not know or notice in a bad way. Quite the opposite: show that like you care about your ideas and what you can say on a certain matter. you be able to make an excellent impression, because humility is always valued by people, even more so as someone who has much knowledge or social status.
You must take into account that nobody likes being criticized or being told that his idea is bad. Avoid at all costs criticize, judge and negatively evaluate what the other says or provides. Rather he argues with the idea and tries to reach a common denominator. Also emphatically praise him whenever appropriate, without falling into the praise but letting him know that it is appreciated or that your idea is very good.
Assumes a positive attitude towards life and towards others. Radiate confidence and joy, even when things look complicated or time are not the best. It is nice to see a person not complaining, and worse if that is something common. If you have problems, solve them internally or become seeks counseling with a friend, but do not go whining in front of other people.
A more difficult part for some people is to smile. Not everyone is naturally happy people and it is normal to be shy or reserved, but that does not mean we have to be boring. Smiling is something that always pleases others, gives confidence and shows how affable and approachable people. But, of course, is not the same smile to laugh like a tattered, so try not to be outrageous, either, because that will generate a rejection.
Another key point is empathy. Put yourself in the other person, try to understand it and to understand their ideas, desires and thoughts. Show yourself friendly for those ideas and desires, even if they are different from yours. We are individuals, different people, and not all think alike, so do not show hate to find someone who thinks like you.
Finally, make your partner feel important. This can be accomplished in several ways. One is to pay attention to anything you say. Look into her eyes, but not intimidating, but rather gaining their trust and making them interested in you. And do not forget a simple Reglita, that always works: we all like to call us by name. So do it, it will have a very beneficial effect on the relationship and talk.
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